Do you ever imagine being so much in control that you can accomplish anything? I mean realistically no one can really control anything, but just think for a minute if you had some type of magic, that you can just by poking, or saying something you could get people to do what you want? Would that really make a difference in your life?
I know some people who have a lot of control, control so much that it is scary. They have this power that just takes over your whole being. Just by being around them you feel this sense of power, a feeling of energy that transpires over your body and you can absolutely do anything when you are around this person. Unfortunately, when away from this person you feel lost and in your own again.
So ask yourself, if you love someone who has this much power, is it really love?