Spring has sprung and as we all wait for that warm summer glow, i have lost my vacation tan and must get some sun. What better way to enhance the mood! Shockingly, design has not taken a back seat these days as i grow each day in my journey. Words can sometimes be difficult to…
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some of my best words highlighted are the ones i take pride in and resonates with reality.
Stop and Think Before You Speak
what is it about people that makes you question all of your efforts for success? I’ll tell you. the lack of understanding and respect. most people don’t even give a second thought when speaking out loud and saying whatever they want or feel, yet others try the same thing and get victimized or reprimanded for…
My thoughts on Being Authentic
when you imagine yourself creating, what do you see, what do you envision and how do you write on paper. here is the simple truth about what we believe people like and what they really appreciate. i always thought that in order to be understood, loved, accepted, you had to do what everyone else expected…
I Would die for you but I won’t because you need me
Living through tragedy and loss is a big deal. It is one of those moments when you question everything about your life, how you lived it and what you have in the present. I don’t care who you are, unless you have superpower to work out all your problems ( which doesn’t exist ) at…
Not Pretending is Worse Than Faking it
it was kind of a tongue twister thinking out loud. i can’t tell you how many times i have heard the phrase: “fake it ’til you make it” which is total bullshit. how can you pretend to be something or someone you are not and feel good about it? YOU CAN’T i became very authentic…
When We Used To Believe In Magic
fairy tales are obscure. they make use our imagination for a fake reality and then we wonder why our children grow up with false expectations of life. the inner child progresses soon to realize that life, isn’t a fairy tale. this is the creation of the beginning of mental health issues and i still can’t…
What we feel does not always match what we process
contrary to beliefs, there are times when we need to reflect on life and it’s journey. we have goals, determinations, ambitions of sort and we are smart enough to follow through with all of the above. we banter and bitch about mistakes or regrets, never understanding the truth about our feelings and why we act…
Express Not Impress
bet you never heard that before. we all want to show people we are strong, we are bountiful, we can survive whatever shit is thrown at us, it is in our nature. some go that distance and over power the moment of “congratulations are in order” with titles that never reflect who they truly are…
Why Do We Struggle with Being Ourselves
I have been doing this for a long time and no matter how many websites I create or ideas come out, I find myself thinking about the same thing. I am always doing or acting for others and that is unacceptable behaviour. I guess wanting validation is human nature for all of us, we want…