what is it about people that makes you question all of your efforts for success? I’ll tell you. the lack of understanding and respect. most people don’t even give a second thought when speaking out loud and saying whatever they want or feel, yet others try the same thing and get victimized or reprimanded for being negative. there is a fine line between knowingly saying things that will hurt another person and making yourself feel good by expressing satisfaction.
I am surrounded by negative people all day long, and it bears saying that I am not sure what people think they are accomplishing by being this way, shouting for no reason other than hearing their voice. They do not stop thinking that their words may negatively affect someone else. you are probably thinking:
“Just get out of it, stop putting yourself through this misery,” but the fact is that some of us have no choice but to continue in this same situation.
when you have lost the ability to feel confident and sure of your actions, one little trigger can set off a set of emotions and frustrations. the person on the verbal side must stop for a moment and think but they do not. you are caught in a circle that makes you uncomfortable and there are no changes to be made because you must accept these surroundings. it makes for a bad lifestyle not to mention the much stress it causes but there is no choice. we must all sacrifice things we don’t want and accept the reality we live in.